Man jailed for eight years for domestic violence

Woman said living with ex-partner was seven years of ‘mental torture’ and she believed he was going to kill her

The man would be 'frothing at the mouth' over minor matters such as his partner using the wrong cooking oil, the Central Criminal Court heard.
The man would be 'frothing at the mouth' over minor matters such as his partner using the wrong cooking oil, the Central Criminal Court heard.

A man who subjected his partner to seven years of domestic violence, beatings, sexual assault and “mental torture” before absconding from the country has been jailed for eight years.

Aspiring photographer Mark White (54) of Hazel Lawns, Ballyhaunis, Co Mayo and formerly of Monkstown, Co Dublin, would “fly into a rage” and be “frothing at the mouth” over minor matters such as his partner using the wrong cooking oil or not having clean socks ready for him, the Central Criminal Court heard.

On various occasions between 2010 and 2017, he pushed her down the stairs, beat her with the leg of a broken coffee table when she was 24 weeks pregnant, broke three bones in her cheek and drove a car towards her at high speed, a local detective told White’s sentence hearing.

He held a knife to her throat before making her kneel to apologise for a minor issue on another occasion and choked her on the day of their child’s first birthday party until she couldn’t breathe. A number of violent incidents took place in front of the couple’s two young children.

The woman wished for White to be named in reporting the case, but did not wish to be named herself, Bernard Condon SC, prosecuting, told the court.

On one occasion, the woman came home from a dental appointment to find their then three-year-old daughter in a distraught state. The court heard the little girl had pointed to the Beast character from Beauty and the Beast and told her father: “Look Daddy, he’s angry like you.”

The man told the woman their child was “evil and vindictive” and when the woman challenged his behaviour, he punched her about 20 times, lifted her by the hair and made her kneel before him to apologise.

On another occasion, he anally digitally penetrated her as she begged him to stop.

In her victim impact statement, which she read out in court, the woman said living with White was seven years of “mental torture” and she truly believed he was going to kill her.

“I knew I had to find a way out,” she told the court. “I saw the fear in my daughter’s eyes and I knew I had to escape. She will never know it, but she saved me.”

White pleaded guilty to six counts of assault causing harm, one count of threatening to kill and one count of sexual assault at the family home within the State on dates between 2010 and 2017.

After the relationship ended, the woman went to gardaí and an interview was arranged with White in 2019. Before this could take place, he left the jurisdiction and is believed to have been living in France and Spain in the intervening years. He operated a business out of a Paris address.

When a European arrest warrant was sought, White informed authorities he would return home. He has one previous conviction for assaulting another woman, the court heard.

Sentencing him on Monday, Mr Justice Paul McDermott said White was an intelligent man of “extremely short temper” who was capable of “serious acts of violence”.

It was “domestic violence of a serious nature”, the judge said.

Taking mitigating factors into account, including White’s guilty pleas, Mr Justice McDermott set sentences of two years and six months for the assaults and three years and six months for both the threat to kill and sexual assault offences.

Taking into account the offending occurred over a long period and that it was calculated, humiliating and degrading in relation to the sexual assault, the judge said a consecutive sentence was required.

He set a headline sentence of 11 years which he reduced to nine years and six months. He suspended the final 18 months of the sentence on a number of conditions, including that White engage with any programmes as recommended by the Probation Service.

At an earlier sentence hearing, the woman told the court White made “deliberate choices that caused lasting harm and changed my life in many ways”.

She said the psychological effect the abuse had on her was profound. “I was no longer a person, just a play thing, something he could use for his own satisfactions.

“I have never known cruelty like this before.”

She said he isolated her from family and friends and controlled every element of her life, including what clothes she wore.

“I chose to tell the truth,” she said. “I endured, I survived. Now I live my life on my own terms.”

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