‘How do I break up with my long-term girlfriend without being the bad guy?’
Postponing the conversation is trading short-term discomfort for long-term unhappiness
‘When she gets upset, remember that breaking up with her now is doing her a kindness in the long run. It’s allowing her to move forward and find what she wants.’
I’m a 33-year-old man and my girlfriend is 30. We’ve been together three years now, and she’s kind, fun and caring.