‘Your husband’s predilection for wearing women’s underwear is not uncommon, and is not a sign of being gay, or transgender, or anything close.’ Photograph: Getty Images

Dear Roe, My husband likes to wear women’s underwear. Before we were married he was unusually interested in my underwear, and after we married he st(...)

“I find myself thinking about her on a daily basis, worried about how she feels towards me.” Photograph: Getty Images

Dear Roe, How do I stop obsessing over a crush? I developed a heavy crush on woman I’d see at regular events. She has pretty much everything I’m loo(...)

Dear Roe: ‘Pornography does not define an orientation.’

Dear Roe, I found gay pornography on my husband’s phone. We’ve been married for 32 years and have three adult children. Do I turn a blind eye to it f(...)

‘Are you being completely honest with yourself , and subconsciously do have a desire to rekindle something with your ex?’

Dear Roe, I’m a 33-year-old man and I was previously with a woman for two years in our mid-20s. After we broke up, I moved away, but have recently mo(...)

'We do have a spare room so practically it’s possible, but I am worried about what this means for our relationship, and our sex life.' Photograph: Getty Images

Dear Roe, I’ve been with my partner for six years, and we’ve lived together for over a year. We’re incredibly happy, I love him to pieces – but we ha(...)

“We’ve been fighting a lot since and I don’t know what to do.” Photograph: Getty Images

Dear Roe, I’m a 26-year-old man, and I’ve been with my girlfriend for five months, though we were casually seeing each other people for a while befor(...)

Dear Roe, My husband and I are both in our 40s and have been together for 13 years. We’re very happy, life is good – but it’s been a few years since(...)

The fact that you didn’t discuss a long-distance relationship indicates a lack of  communication and investment in seriously, realistically considering a future together. Photograph: iStock

Dear Roe, I met a man while living abroad last year. The first date left me on cloud nine, but also upset knowing that I would have to leave soon and(...)

People who are genderfluid can alternate between feeling more male and female at certain times. They can go through prolonged periods of time feeling more connected with one gender over the other, or it can vary day-to-day.

Dear Roe, My son is 15 and is convinced he’s genderfluid. He has told me that’s it’s not a passing phase. He wants me to buy him pink girl’s underwea(...)

People can need time to recover from emotional trauma Photograph: iStock

Dear Roe, I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half we’ve never had sex. He’s been really hurt from previous relationships and has compl(...)

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