‘I’m not spending all day on Zoom anymore’: Man has epiphany after heart attack

As he sat at his computer on a recent Sunday afternoon, preparing for the workweek ahead, Jonathan Frostick, a program manager at an investment bank in London, said he could not breathe. His chest tightened and his ears started to pop. He was having a heart attack.

His first thoughts were of how this would disrupt his work life.

"I needed to meet with my manager tomorrow," Frostick, who works for HSBC, wrote in a post on LinkedIn. "This isn't convenient."

Later, as he convalesced in a hospital bed, Frostick began to examine his life, he wrote. Beneath a photo of himself in his hospital bed, he posted new vows for his life going forward:

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“I’m not spending all day on Zoom anymore.”

“I’m restructuring my approach to work.”

He would no longer put up with workplace drama. “Life is too short,” he wrote.

Lastly: “I want to spend more time with my family.”

Since he described his epiphany a week ago, his post has been liked more than 250,000 times. It has received more than 13,000 comments from readers describing how their own brushes with death had led them to step back from work and take stock of the way they had been living their lives.

The post resonated at a time when weary people across the world are experiencing ennui, dread and more work-related stress during the coronavirus pandemic.

Even those who have been lucky enough to keep their jobs have questioned their purpose in life as they spend long hours on Zoom calls and answer emails into the night.

At the same time, employees who have managed to strike a better balance between their jobs and their personal lives during the pandemic are now reckoning with a return to the office, causing them to re-evaluate how much time they want to dedicate to work.

"I know countless people in the last few years who have suffered life-threatening illnesses just simply because there is no downtime — always on call," a management consultant from Alberta, Canada, wrote in reply to Frostick's post. "It's absolutely detrimental to our health, but we're built on the existence that we always have to keep pushing."

Another person described how she had became so burned out at work that she was admitted to a psychiatric hospital.

"I relate, bro," wrote a self-described entrepreneur from Nigeria who said he had sold his multiple cars and homes to lead a happier, more "Spartan" life. "Bro, welcome to the real life. Now you'll truly, truly live."

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Others offered him tips on how to lose weight – Frostick also vowed to drop 15kg (2st 5lb) – or asked him to appear on their podcasts so he might share his story with their listeners.

In an interview with Bloomberg News, Frostick, a father of three young children, said that during the pandemic he and his colleagues had spent a "disproportionate amount of time on Zoom calls".

Before the heart attack, Frostick had been working 12-hour days, he said, missing his colleagues and suffering from the isolation of working from home. “We’re not able to have those other conversations off the side of a desk or by the coffee machine, or take a walk and go and have that chat,” Frostick said. “That has been quite profound, not just in my work, but across the professional-services industry.”

A few days after the post, Frostick thanked the thousands of people who had written him and wrote that he was now able to move around his house for two to three hours at a time.

Later, he wrote another post that indicated he had moved from soul-searching to trying to answer profound philosophical questions.

“Who am I? It’s like a riddle my mind cannot solve,” he wrote. “I have no idea who I am anymore. This is going to take some time . . . Can you answer who you are?” – New York Times