My marriage is boring and polite. How do I make my husband interested in me?

‘It is all mundane conversation: dinner options, TV options, nothing personal’

Spend half an hour before bed each night asking each other the questions you haven’t asked in years or maybe never asked. File photograph: Getty

Spend half an hour before bed each night asking each other the questions you haven’t asked in years or maybe never asked. File photograph: Getty

Dear Roe,

I am a married woman in my late 30s with three beautiful children under the age of seven. My relationship with my husband is frequently strained, sometimes polite, often dreadfully boring.

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