That wedding? ‘I just needed to wait until it was on my plate and deal with it then,’ says Richie Sadlier. Photograph: Cyril Byrne

With alcohol not an option I found the prospect of attending a wedding terrifying

Colin Healy, Richie Sadlier and Roy Keane at Ireland training in 2002. Photo: Tom Honan

In an extract from his new book Richie Sadlier on ‘transactional sex’ in the world of football

Party of two: if your partner is heavily intoxicated they can’t give consent. Photograph: iStock

Richie Sadlier and Elaine Byrnes discuss consent with transition year boys

Abortion services are accessed annually by thousands of women living in Ireland – the only impact your vote can make is on how safely they have them. Photograph: Niall Carson/PA Wire

The focus has been on trusting Irish girls and women, as if men are above reproach

 James Corcoran of Ireland saves  a penalty from Daishawn Redan of the Netherlands but was  then sent off for a second yellow card after coming of his line too early   at Proact Stadium  in Chesterfield, England. Photograph:  Nathan Stirk/Getty Images

There was much to admire in the measured reactions of Nathan Collins

Ulster and Ireland rugby player Paddy Jackson leaves court in Belfast  after being found not guilty of rape. Photograph: Paul Faith/AFP/Getty Images

Education can support players in resisting the toxic attitudes in male professional sport

It’s tricky to discuss in a climate that promotes compassion, but delusion exists here

Michael O’Neill (left) and Martin O’Neill: The Republic of Ireland manager seemed to bridle over suggestions made by his Northern Ireland counterpart. Photograph: Sportsfile/Corbis via Getty

Key issue is preventing young Irish players from making choices they might later regret

Mourinho just hasn’t been able to coach Paul Pogba  into the type of player he wants, nor has he found a consistent way of organising the team to maximise his talents.  Photograph:  Laurence Griffiths/Getty Images

Perhaps United’s boss didn’t know what he was signing when he paid €100m for him

When we urge teenagers to ask for help the implied message is that the country can provide it. It’s only when you work in this area do you realise how untrue that is

Richie Sadlier: Hardest part of my job is telling parents there are no available beds for a young person in a crisis

Wes Hoolahan celebrates scoring for Shelbourne with Jim Crawford back in 2004. Photo: Morgan Treacy/Inpho

The midfielder’s lifestyle required some tweaking before he made the grade away from Shels

 Maybe Phil Neville  doesn’t hold any of the beliefs that his tweets suggest he does around women’s domestic roles and violence towards them. Photograph: Owen Humphreys/PA Wire.

A woman as underqualified wouldn’t land an England manager’s role

“I know what I’d be thinking if I was in Martin O’Neill’s dressing room and he started to question the mentality of any of the players.” Photograph: Charles McQuillan/Getty Images

The manager can no longer credibly claim to be committed, and the FAI must come clean

Lowest-ranked team Saudi Arabia are drawn against Russia in the 2018 World Cup. The second- and third-lowest ranked teams were also, coincidentally, drawn against Russia. Photograph: Shaun Botterill/Getty Images

The stench of corruption and cheating hangs over the greatest sports event in the world

‘At an age where they are forming their own ideas on sex and what it entails, it’s not fair to allow the porn industry be their only guides,’ says Richard Sadlier. Photograph: Cyril Byrne

Richie Sadlier: Is Irish sex education failing boys before they've even left school?

Martin O’Neill during the Denmark match.  If he’s okay to continue with his hands-off approach then people are going to query it when it looks like his team lack guidance. Photograph: Reuters/Lee Smith

Ireland were ruthlessly exposed for spending so little time preparing for the Danish threat

Martin O’Neill: “People might have said I’m a bit aloof, but I’m among the players without inconveniencing them by telling them what to do all the time.”

Whatever it is Martin O’Neill actually does, it works

Richie Sadlier: When I first spoke publicly about attending therapy, years after I first went, four friends contacted me to say they had done likewise

Former Irish soccer player Richie Sadlier says it shouldn’t be a stigma to need help with your mental health

Martin O’Neill:  despite the manager’s feat in guiding us to  the play-offs, we can’t keep the ball and  have the poorest scoring record of any team left.  Photograph: Ryan Byrne/Inpho

It’s hard to be precise about O’Neill’s winning ways but our seeded rivals won’t fear us

English-born Ireland player Harry Arter  may not know it, but it may be of benefit for an international player to be born outside the Republic. Photograph: Gary Carr/Inpho

As long as Martin O’Neill’s men keep delivering, the problem will unlikely be tackled

Virgil van Dijk: Chairman Ralph Kreuger said this week that the Southampton defender is going nowhere. Photograph: Adam Davy/PA Wire.

Clubs are not powerless in the battle with want-away players like Virgil van Dijk

Danny Rose. 'The England international has a short career and, like all players, wants to make the best of it.' Photograph: Clive Mason/Getty Images

Spurs need to pay the going rate and keep their best players if they want to win trophies

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