‘The man I’m having an affair with won’t let me leave him’

Ask Roe: I hate that I have to give you a list of things to do to keep yourself safe as you leave

‘First, tell your friends and family what has been going on so that they can support you.’

‘First, tell your friends and family what has been going on so that they can support you.’

Dear Roe,

I had a brief fling with a man 20 years ago. It ended because he chose the woman he’s now married to. Last year we met at a funeral and since then he’s bombarded me with emails, texts and phone calls.

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