Maureen Dowd: Trump preens as the first lady vanishes

Melania’s rebellion shows how this administration is a shattering moment for the US

FLOTUS Melania Trump. Photograph: Al Drago/Bloomberg

FLOTUS Melania Trump. Photograph: Al Drago/Bloomberg

 

Melania has learned a few things from the master. The first lady will never be as brilliant at trolling as her husband. He is an idiot-savant who plays in the roiling ocean of Twitter as naturally as a blubbery-necked sea lion. Only Donald Trump, a Rat Pack relic who spurred the reckoning with his transgressions toward women, could send out a tweet taking credit for the women’s march.

But the Slovenian Sphinx has her moments. It started when she seemed to sartorially upbraid Trump for his Billy Bush vulgarities by wearing a pussy-bow blouse to the St Louis debate. Then, in a master stroke, she chose a first-lady project that could only be interpreted as a wicked rip on her husband: fighting vicious cyberbullies.

Last spring, Melania’s personal Twitter account liked a Gif of her own downcast face at the inaugural address with an accompanying crack: “Seems the only #Wall @realDonaldTrump’s built is the one between him and @FLOTUS.” And who can forget the crisp hand swat in Israel or her wish to spend Christmas on “a deserted island”?

Last weekend, on the anniversary of the inauguration, Melania instagrammed a throwback picture of herself in her powder-blue Jackie suit, not with her husband but with a hunky marine escort. She wore a delighted ear-to-ear smile, the kind she never seems to flash around the Donald. (It would have been even funnier, of course, if she had posted a photo of herself in front of some empty stands and a sparse crowd, but we’re talking more grounds for divorce there.)

After the Stormy Daniels story broke – about Trump cavorting and watching Shark Week with the porn star and telling her not to worry about Melania, at home with a new baby, and then having his lawyer allegedly pay Stormy $130,000 during the campaign to hush her up – a wintry Melania cancelled her plan to accompany her husband to Davos.

Instead, while the kid from Queens was abroad trying to impress the soul-sucking global elites he got elected railing against, pathetically bragging that he had “a crowd like they’ve never had before in Davos”, Melania made a solo visit to the Holocaust Museum in Washington for Holocaust Remembrance Day.

This looked like a subtle reproach to Trump for his unspeakable defence of the “very fine people” among the neo-Nazis in Charlottesville, Virginia, and an allusion to the president’s statement last year on remembrance day, which somehow neglected to remember Jews or anti-Semitism. What a Stephen Miller special that was.

The Gif Melania Trump liked

Afterward, the always elusive first lady became even more elusive, slipping out of Washington, much to the surprise of the press. Suddenly, as Stormy Daniels began her media tour on Inside Edition and booked an appearance on the Jimmy Kimmel chatshow, Melania was making a stealthy landing in Florida on a US air force plane.

Trump could humiliate his wife by being a big, horny pig, but he is the one who comes off as the embarrassment. He’s an embarrassing husband and an embarrassing president and an embarrassing leader of the free world.

Many of the institutions that gave the United States its identity as a smart, brave, fair country seem corroded and immoral

Barack Obama was always calling to our better angels. Donald Trump is paying off porn stars and denigrating struggling countries that send minorities to the US as “shitholes”.

How did we drop so far and so fast from class to crass? Partly, it was the Democrats’ preference for lecturing and entitlement over winning and wooing.

They passed over people who had better messages and more authentic personae who might have beaten Trump, like Bernie Sanders and Joe Biden, and gave the nomination to Hillary Clinton, a flawed feminist icon who was stunted in her ability to criticise her rival for his retrogressive treatment of women since she had enabled her husband in his retrogressive treatment of women.

The New York Times reported on Friday that Hillary protected a senior adviser on faith in her 2008 campaign who was accused of repeatedly sexually harassing a young woman aide.

Hillary ignored the advice of her campaign manager, Patti Solis Doyle, to fire the man, Burns Strider, and simply docked him several weeks’ pay and made him undergo counselling. The subordinate who complained was given a new job.

As the New York Times’s Susan Chira wrote, the episode was “a poignant reminder that placing women in positions of leadership does not ensure they will always act to protect other women”.

Vanishing act

Everyone wondered if Melania’s rebellious vanishing act – combined with the simultaneous New York Times scoop that Trump had already tried to fire Robert Mueller but was blocked by the White House lawyer, Don McGahn – was the beginning of the “unravelling”, as one top Democrat put it. (Surely, the Trump unravelling began with his birth, like Damien in The Omen.)

“There’s an endgame in sight, though it may take longer,” Tim O’Brien, a Trump biographer, told me. “It’s like ancient Rome where they’re all turning on each other. McGahn is taking out the long knives to stick Trump in the back.

“At some point, Gen Kelly may do the same. Bannon is exiled to the outer walls of the city, where he is collecting wayward Roman soldiers to go back and attack Trump. There are orgies and payoffs and mud wrestling, so beyond anything we’ve experienced anywhere.”

The White House is either ancient Rome falling or the Moscow cat circus, as the Trump biographer Michael D’Antonio calls it, or a blender with the top off, as one of my colleagues dubs it.

It’s a shattering moment for the country, when many of the institutions that gave the United States its identity as a smart, brave, generous, fair country – the presidency, Congress, sports, faith, Hollywood, big business – seem corroded and immoral. When we look in the mirror and try to figure out who we are now, elevating a corporate tax cut over our fundamental values is not going to cut it. – New York Times

The Irish Times Logo
Commenting on The Irish Times has changed. To comment you must now be an Irish Times subscriber.
SUBSCRIBE
GO BACK
Error Image
The account details entered are not currently associated with an Irish Times subscription. Please subscribe to sign in to comment.
Comment Sign In

Forgot password?
The Irish Times Logo
Thank you
You should receive instructions for resetting your password. When you have reset your password, you can Sign In.
The Irish Times Logo
Please choose a screen name. This name will appear beside any comments you post. Your screen name should follow the standards set out in our community standards.
Screen Name Selection

Hello

Please choose a screen name. This name will appear beside any comments you post. Your screen name should follow the standards set out in our community standards.

The Irish Times Logo
Commenting on The Irish Times has changed. To comment you must now be an Irish Times subscriber.
SUBSCRIBE
Forgot Password
Please enter your email address so we can send you a link to reset your password.

Sign In

Your Comments
We reserve the right to remove any content at any time from this Community, including without limitation if it violates the Community Standards. We ask that you report content that you in good faith believe violates the above rules by clicking the Flag link next to the offending comment or by filling out this form. New comments are only accepted for 3 days from the date of publication.