America Online has demanded that a Denver-area author stop selling her Internet-dating advice book You've Got Male because the title sounds too much like the Internet company's phrase "You've Got Mail".

But first-time, self-published author Madelene Sabol said she had no intention of bowing. The phrase "You've Got Mail" is used by AOL to tell users they have received e-mail.

AOL sent Sabol a cease and desist letter telling her to stop selling the book, company spokesman Jim Whitney said.