Who would dare to oppose gay marriage and risk being accused of homophobia
Opinion: To describe someone as homophobic is to take their good name
Are you now, or have you ever been, in favour of retaining the traditional meaning of marriage? Well, you now know that the most likely explanation for that mistaken view is homophobia.
Madonna says so, so it must be true.
Homophobia-gate started when an RTÉ presenter spectacularly failed Broadcast Journalism 101.
For broadcast journalists, it’s simple. If a guest looks like he or she is going to defame someone, cut them off immediately. If the damage is done, make it clear straight away that these are not the organisation’s views.
What you don’t do is ask the guest to name names, and then helpfully supply them with the word homophobic.
Homophobia is defined in the Shorter Oxford Dictionary as “fear or hatred of homosexuals and homosexuality”, and in the public mind is often associated with hostility and sometimes with violence.
By any reasonable person’s standards, to describe someone as homophobic is to take their good name. There is a bright line between defamation and debate. Yes, those of us who were identified as homophobic could have decided not to pursue an apology and reparation, but with predictable results.
Already, people were terrified of going public with doubts about gay marriage, and I know two people told by their employers that to do so would threaten their employment.
Who would dare to oppose gay marriage, knowing that they would be constantly accused of homophobia?
It is normally the lunatic fringe that resorts to name-calling. Instead, Senators, TDs, MEPs, barristers, prominent columnists and the executive director of Amnesty International Ireland lined up, some to reiterate that we were homophobic, with the more subtle just inviting us to examine our consciences. All claimed we were stifling debate. For example, Senator Averil Power tweeted: “Really p****d off that Iona are getting TV licence fee money to help them promote discrimination & prejudice against LGBT people.” Makes me wonder why I campaigned to retain the Senate, if that level of invective now passes for fair comment.
So who is stifling debate?
With half the country under water, we have spent a month declaring that people accused of homophobia have no right to a defence. So who is stifling debate?
I supported the decriminalisation of homosexuality, did not oppose the protections afforded by civil partnership and am in favour of guardianship rights in specific cases where two gay people are raising children. For this I was declared homophobic? Or because I said that every child has a mother and father, and that legislating to make that irrefutable reality irrelevant needs major debate?
Is it because I oppose giving constitutional backing to Minister for Justice Alan Shatter’s proposal to make “commissioning” a child through surrogacy and/or egg or sperm donation legally identical to a mother and father raising their own child? Why has no advocate of gay marriage condemned this proposal?