Letters from Jackie: The unlikely friendship between an American student and an Irish priest

The friendship that flowered between Jackie Kennedy and Fr Joseph Leonard nurtured a long and close correspondence

Jackie Kennedy’s long and close correspondence with a Dublin priest gives a unique insight into the private life she so jealously guarded, which continued through the White House Years.

Tue, May 13, 2014, 06:46

It was the most unlikely friendship – a beautiful , wealthy American student in Washington DC and an elderly Irish priest living in semi-retirement, more than 3,000 miles away in Ireland. The correspondence between Jackie Kennedy and Fr Joseph Leonard began when she was 21 and he was 73.

She saw him only twice in 14 years – during visits to Dublin in 1950 and in 1955 – yet wrote to him regularly. She poured out her heart to him and often remarked how much she valued their friendship and cherished his advice.

After their first meeting in Ireland in 1950, Jackie and Fr Leonard began a correspondence that lasted until he died in 1964.

Over the years she wrote to him from a succession of addresses that included her family home, Merrywood, a 46-acre estate in McLean, Virginia, northwest of Washington DC, that overlooked the Potomac river; the nearby house Hickory Hill, acquired by her husband John F Kennedy after their marriage; and, of course, the White House.

Her letters acknowledged the crucial importance of the correspondence and she explained, at the end of one especially long and frank letter about her love life: “It’s so good in a way to write all this down and get it off your chest – because I never do really talk about it with anyone – but poor you has to read it!”

When Jacqueline Kennedy Onassis died in May 1994 her obituary in the New York Times (by Robert D McFadden) described her as “a quintessentially private person, poised and glamorous but shy and aloof”. She “never created an oral history” and, noted McFadden, “her silence about her past, especially about the Kennedy years and her marriage to the president, was always something of a mystery”.

In her own words
Although she worked as an editor for publishing companies in her later years, she never wrote an autobiography. She gave no interviews after 1964 and battled vigorously to suppress unauthorised revelations about her private life. But these letters reveal for the first time Jackie’s views on crucial events in her personal life in her own words.

The letters to Fr Leonard suggest she may have needed a father figure in whom to confide. Her parents had divorced when she was 10 years old, a difficulty compounded for her as a Catholic, given the church’s opposition to divorce.

In 1942, her mother married the businessman and oil heir Hugh Auchincloss and the then 13-year-old Jackie acquired two stepbrothers in addition to her younger sister, Lee.

Fr Leonard, who seems to have been utterly captivated by Jacqueline (as she signed her letters), playfully called her a “girouette” – the French word for a weather vane used informally to describe a fickle person. She signed off her first letter to Fr Leonard “Jacqueline, who really isn’t a girouette” and the word crops up in subsequent correspondence.