Since I had a baby, my cheating partner calls me fat and disgusting

Ask Roe: I can’t stand to look in the mirror. My partner only makes it worse

I used to be attractive and now I can’t stand to look in the mirror. Photograph: iStock

I used to be attractive and now I can’t stand to look in the mirror. Photograph: iStock

Dear Roe,

My partner (who I don’t think even considers me as a partner any more; it’s confusing) tells me that I’m disgusting and fat. Not constantly, but now and again, if he is angry at me he will make comments about my appearance.

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