I'm gay and have fooled around with my straight flatmate - now what?

Ask Roe: We’re both pretending like it didn’t happen but I want a relationship with him

Your flatmate deserves to feel good about who he is. But so do you. Photograph: iStock

Your flatmate deserves to feel good about who he is. But so do you. Photograph: iStock

Dear Roe,

I’m living in a houseshare with a friend and I’m having trouble characterising things. From the start we clicked. He’s kind and funny and always has time to talk. I spend all day looking forward to the next time I see him. We usually eat dinner together and spend evenings hanging out.

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