I'm gay and have fooled around with my straight flatmate - now what?
Ask Roe: We’re both pretending like it didn’t happen but I want a relationship with him
Your flatmate deserves to feel good about who he is. But so do you. Photograph: iStock
I’m living in a houseshare with a friend and I’m having trouble characterising things. From the start we clicked. He’s kind and funny and always has time to talk. I spend all day looking forward to the next time I see him. We usually eat dinner together and spend evenings hanging out.