‘I’m dating an older man, but I think he just wants sex’

Ask Roe: Remember 20-year-olds: That 30-year-old does not love you; they’re a creep

You know this chasm exists. You’re feeling it already. And like many people who have been approached by an older person, you’re finding the chasm both intoxicating and intimidating

You know this chasm exists. You’re feeling it already. And like many people who have been approached by an older person, you’re finding the chasm both intoxicating and intimidating

Dear Roe,

I am 20-years-old, gay and I have met a great man. I’ve been working in cafe and he was a customer who left me his number. He’s 10 years older than me and much more mature, and that’s the thing that fascinates me.

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