I’m a sexual deviant. How do I tell new partners?
Ask Roe: I enjoy being dominated, but are these desires always going to be a problem?
‘I enjoy exploring kink with my partners.’ Photograph: iStock
I’m in my early 40s and have always known that I’m a bit of a sexual deviant. I have a high sex drive, am willing to try most things, and enjoy exploring kink with my partners. I enjoy many of the basic elements of being dominated, including playing with being bound, constraints, dirty talk, hair pulling and exploring other physical boundaries.