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Q I am male, now in my 60 s, and have been separated for many years. The chief marital problems that developed had little to do with sex, but natur(...)

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Q I look after myself and never expe cted at my age (late 40s) to be “on the shelf”, emotionally speaking. I’m married but my husband is really ju(...)

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Q I have split up with my fiance. It was a whirlwind romance: we met at a party , within weeks we were dating, and a year and a half later we were (...)

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Q After 14 years of marriage, we’re in our late 30s with three young children. Over the last seven years, since we had our first child, we have had(...)

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It used to take nerve and ingenuity to accumulate a stash of pornographic materials; now porn is everywhere, only a click away on many mobile phone(...)

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Q I’m a 30-year-old man engaged to a beautiful woman. Problem is, there’s no spark between the sheets. I think I’m intimidated by her unreal perfectio(...)

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Q I am deeply ashamed of my behaviour. My wife, the mother of my young children, died in tragic circumstances nearly two years ago. Illness came upon (...)

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Q I’m in an awful panic and don’t know where else to turn. I started using an online dating app called Tinder last week. It was fun at first, flicking(...)

Q Our children are all in their 20s and finished third-level education for the moment. Their lives are in flux: as unpaid internships, poorly paid job(...)

Control issues can sometimes lead to one spouse bullying the other into relinquishing complete access to their phone, laptop or tablet, and that can be a form of domestic abuse. Photograph: Getty Images

Q I have done something my husband says is unforgiveable. He is barely speaking to me, and the distance between us has never been greater.I had seen h(...)