The goldfish won’t forget this in a hurry. Photograph: Thinkstock

I suppose it’s a seasonal thing: this need for reappraisal, this new-broom feeling that pops up with the lost turkey thermometer (a bit late now, m(...)

‘In the words of Lou Reed, I’m beginning to see the light.’ Photograph: Miguel Vidal/Reuters

WISDOM WEEK In the words of Lou Reed, “I’m beginning to see the light, a little wine for my breakfast, a little breakfast at night”. The e(...)

Number one in the disappointment chart was ‘not seeing enough of the world’. Having come of age in an era when long haul meant dragging the coal bag around the back, I too feel the pain. But is it ever too late to say ‘one-way ticket, please’?

Happy new year, comrades. I trust you survived the festive season without choking on a turkey bone or gagging on a mouthful of bitter regret for ha(...)

‘Christmas: love it or loathe it, we pretty much know that if we have the wherewithal, it’s incumbent on us to step up to the mark and get on with it at the first tinkle of Jingle Bells.’ Photograph: Thinkstock

So, it’s happening. Christmas is about to crash down, like a sad drunk into a decorative bay tree. If we’re lucky and fate has left us off the (...)

‘Just when you’ve pulled yourself out of the mire, they’ll knock you back in again with a simpering, nauseating, molasses-soaked blast of White Christmas’

Ding dong merrily on high: it’s December already. Time to defrost the frosting, soak your prunes in anorak, I mean Armagnac, roast your petrified n(...)

‘The same research also contends that people without children are generally happier. This surprised me.’ Photograph: Thinkstock

I was listening to the radio the other morning, watching the bread defrost while the rain splattered the blackened window panes. The presenter was (...)

The article was headlined “Five reasons to date a girl with an eating disorder”, and it popped up on my laptop screen complete with an image of a skin(...)

Jackie: how else were you supposed to know what to do when a boy stuck his tongue in your mouth

‘Dear Cathy and Claire, I get so depressed when I think about growing up and getting married – the thing all girls are supposed to want. My 19-year(...)

Robbie Williams and Ayda Field. Photograph: Dave M Benett/Getty Images

I’m far too long in the tooth to experience any grief or faded desire when the name Robbie Williams crops up. Take That, the band the puppyesque Wi(...)

‘Sometimes, when the sea mist came down and the foghorn hounded the dense sky, the house disappeared entirely.’ Photograph: Thinkstock

We were walking the cliff path in riotous autumn sunshine, sweatshirts tied around our waists. The day was hot, the blackberry bushes picked clean.We (...)