Swedish death cleaning: Put your life in order so loved ones needn’t
- People
- November 3, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: Here it’s beaten into us to worry about a clean soul, not a sock drawer
We’ve been having trouble with the boiler. And that’s not a euphemism
- People
- October 27, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: In the domestic arena, boilers and their idiosyncrasies can represent the last frontier between sanity and full-blo(...)
I’ve found an eighth stage of grief, called You Must Be Shagging Joking
- People
- October 20, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: An MRI scan made me realise what we accept about death
Hilary Fannin: I don’t really believe in the notion of a truer, deeper self
- People
- October 13, 2017, 06:00
At the beach, the dog would sniff out swimmers’ carefully tucked-away underwear and eat it
Is that why you almost had sex in the short-term car park?
- People
- October 6, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: In the intensity of the moment one thing began to lead to another, my friend said
I’m not alone in this strange post-death parlour
- People
- September 29, 2017, 06:00
I’m on the frontline. In the past few years we’ve lost an entire generation
I put my own name in the ‘deceased’ box instead of my mother’s
- People
- September 22, 2017, 08:55
Hilary Fannin: Does great age make death easier? Of course it does. How could it not?
I'm a lousy tourist. I like to nap in the bread basket
- People
- September 15, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: I no longer gaze, slack-jawed and pinched with envy, at beautiful young couples entwined on matching beach towels
‘You are having vivid dreams They’re not real. You’re not dying’
- People
- September 7, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: My mother looked at me as if from a great distance . . .
I’m pulling the Goop plug – no jade eggs are going in my yoni
- People
- July 28, 2017, 05:00
This time I’m serious about finishing with Gwyneth Paltrow’s online lifestyle magazine
‘We’ll be married 31 years. You’d get less for murder’
- People
- July 21, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: So many friends tied the knot in their early 20s. How are they still hitched?
We don’t remember rain in the summers of our childhood
- People
- July 14, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: When I look back I see a cloudless blue sky above our suburban road
It's no longer enough to shake your well-educated heads in lazy despair
- People
- July 7, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: The image of Alan Kurdi’s body, washed up on a Turkish beach in 2015, was, for many of the students, emblematic of (...)
Dignified, tennis club ladies, lifting white wine to red lips
- People
- June 30, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: My mother never really played tennis, just randomly lobbed rubber balls around the grassy courts, turning young men(...)
My fascination with Gwyneth Paltrow's squeaky-clean colon is over
- People
- June 23, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin is getting fed up with Goop's white cotton shirts and irony-free advice
Bloomsday: Searching for the spot in Howth where Molly Bloom said ‘yes’
- People
- June 16, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: Catching peace in communion with the past on a warm day in June
My wedding ring wouldn’t look out of place under the bonnet of a car
- People
- June 9, 2017, 05:00
Hilary Fannin: I thought this while surrounded by bejewelled women drinking wine on a flight to Malaga
Breast density and other lessons from graduates of the cancer academy
- People
- June 2, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: Informing women of their breast density could save lives
Hilary Fannin: ‘Memory cannot be abolished in a referendum’
- People
- May 26, 2017, 05:58
A friend coming home from London reminded me that the past does not recede
What if Brigitte Macron were an ordinary-looking sixtysomething?
- People
- May 19, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: I marvel at how any woman in her 40s could spend time with a kid who produces more sebum than cash
'She quoted a price almost €40,000 more than the asking with 15 minutes viewing time left'
- People
- May 12, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: Home-hunting in Dublin these days is not for the faint of heart
Young voices are an antidote to cynicism and fear
- People
- May 5, 2017, 05:00
Hilary Fannin: Young writers’ work is punching its way onto the Abbey stage
‘Hello,’ I shout into the empty space. ‘I’m home’
- People
- April 28, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: They used to emerge when I brought food back to the house. Now it’s just me and the cat
During the night an elderly man died and a frightened woman had a stroke
- People
- April 21, 2017, 05:00
Hilary Fannin: A&E is an oil slick of ailing humanity the State seems unable to absorb
‘As long as there is breath in our bodies we will take care of him’
- People
- April 14, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: The fight that parents in Ireland face on behalf of their autistic children is exhausting
Somewhere along the line, several degrees of empathy fell off my moral compass
- People
- April 7, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: At a push, I could be a tolerable dog-walker, but that’s about as far as my altruism extends
To be heard these days it's best to be a monotonous man
- People
- March 31, 2017, 05:00
Hilary Fannin: If you are a woman the media is more likely to critique your footwear - just ask Amal Clooney
Improve your chances of living longer, do what the Ikarians do
- People
- March 23, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: The Ikarians who live 10 years longer than other Europeans have it right
'It's hard to celebrate Irishness in the face of recent revelations'
- People
- March 16, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: 'We were the chosen ones but St Patrick did not protect the babies who died at Tuam’
More sex please, we’re in our 80s
- People
- March 9, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: Sexually-active oldies leaving exhausted 30-somethings in shade
‘I’m panicking about all the things I haven’t done, like going to a rave’
- People
- March 3, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: Demented morning pick-me-up did little to quell my Torschlusspanik
‘In fashion week and every week I’m happy to be Dumpy from Ireland’
- People
- February 23, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: It’s liberating to not be caught up in a model lifestyle
Calling all feminists/mixed race/trans ladies: please enter the Rose of Tralee
- People
- February 17, 2017, 05:55
Hilary Fannin: Let’s hope this oddly quirky, uniquely Irish organisation will some day shunt itself into the contemporary world an(...)
A routine mammogram at 60 – and life changes overnight
- People
- February 9, 2017, 13:00
A shock cancer diagnosis has taken Hilary Fannin's coolest friend through hell and back
My husband is turning 60 – decades are collapsing like deckchairs
- People
- February 2, 2017, 08:30
Occasional forays into mindfulness websites make me want to buck the trend and dwell savagely in the past
Swap your mini dress for a crisp white shirt, and other useless advice on ageing
- People
- January 27, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin is on the cusp of resentment of youth and yearning for slippers and camomile tea
The lousy reality of fat-porn TV programmes
- People
- January 20, 2017, 06:00
New-year schedules are sagging under the sheer density of unwanted flesh that we seem to have accumulated over the festive season
Hilary Fannin: ‘Don’t wait to do what it is you want to do’
- People
- January 13, 2017, 06:00
Time’s arrow points to wisdom of not putting off important things
Reasons to be cheerful: Brent geese, sunsets and a carved tree overlooking Dublin bay
- People
- January 6, 2017, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: Tonight is Nollaig na mBan, a last dance, a chance to regroup
Hilary Fannin: New Year’s party etiquette eludes me
- People
- December 30, 2016, 04:00
You must ideally bring something that pops (no, not your waistband fasteners)
Hilary Fannin: I’ve a nasty feeling about where I might have put the giblets
- People
- December 23, 2016, 06:00
Although the notion of matching plates, or indeed glasses, finding their way on to my table is about as alien as Donald Trump on a(...)
‘How can it be Christmas? Again? It was Christmas about 20 minutes ago, wasn’t it?’
- People
- December 16, 2016, 06:00
They’re not joking about time speeding up the older you get
‘Chop your own wood and it will warm ya twice’ and other gems from Sarah Palin
- People
- December 9, 2016, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: The Alaskan’s Yuletide book feels more frightening in the Trump era
Hilary Fannin: Yes, I am feeling overwhelmed. Aren’t you?
- People
- December 2, 2016, 15:00
In the wake of the American election I feel like I’m waiting for a horror show to start
‘I’d never seen anything like the Ivanas in Trump Plaza’
- People
- November 25, 2016, 06:00
With the clack of wealth on bruise-coloured marble nothing seemed real, just like now
Sharon Stone’s advice for empty nesters is ... not bad actually
- People
- November 18, 2016, 06:00
Hilary Fannin: There is a world of possibility beyond the creaking gate
Hilary Fannin: No hygge please, we’re Irish
- People
- November 11, 2016, 06:00
The cosy concept has a natural fit with Danes but shiny premature Christmas is more us
Rosaleen McDonagh: A woman who broke the mould of our paralysing lack of ambition for disabled people
- People
- November 4, 2016, 06:00
‘Mainstream’ includes actors who have at various times been ignored and marginalised because of disability and ethnicity
Hilary Fannin: Give me that old time virginity
- People
- October 23, 2016, 06:00
‘Re-virginising’, all the rage, makes as much sense as carrying a dog in a handbag
Hilary Fannin: On the Camino’s uplifting Gore-Tex trail
- People
- October 16, 2016, 06:00
My pilgrimage was entirely secular, but no less meaningful for that
Hilary Fannin: The most important quality in a second husband
- People
- October 13, 2016, 06:00
Women's writing for Women's Day: The water pipe spurted merrily as my present husband googled ‘how to stem a flood’
Hillary Fannin: Brangelina tiff smacks of ‘parenting’ differences
- People
- October 7, 2016, 06:00
We weren’t parented; just given an occasional boiled egg and left to the wolves
Teenage boys are the new beauty fanatics
- People
- September 30, 2016, 08:00
How to be a Man: The male grooming industry is expanding at a rate of knots
Hilary Fannin: Elderly women of the gym are a powerful tribe
- People
- September 23, 2016, 01:00
My enthusiasm for the gym fell apart when I realised I could go for a walk for free
Hilary Fannin: Calling women fat will always make the news
- People
- September 16, 2016, 06:00
Times may change, but ‘cosmetically unfit’ birds will never be allowed to fly
Hilary Fannin: All relationships could do with a confidentiality clause
- People
- September 9, 2016, 06:00
Cheryl Fernandez-Versini’s stance on the gagging clause with her young lover is to be lauded
Last night’s TV: ‘Cold Feet’ should have remained an old feat
- TV, Radio, Web
- September 6, 2016, 10:00
13 years on, it’s hard to see the new Cold Feet defining fiftysomethings the way the original series did for thirtysomethings
Hilary Fannin: Sex is hard to come by on planet airbrush
- People
- September 2, 2016, 01:00
Apparently there is a whole generation out there too exhausted to gird their loins for some loin-girding
Hilary Fannin: How do we live? The answer is not in the laundry
- People
- August 26, 2016, 01:00
It’s easier to focus one’s frustrations on stain removal than to admit to impotent rage at the world
Rose of Tralee TV review: It’s all about retro stardust
- TV, Radio, Web
- August 23, 2016, 23:50
Hilary Fannin: ‘A sense of how moving it might be for emigré families to see young women breathe new life into their ancestry’
Rose of Tralee TV review: ‘About as sexy as a plate of Mariettas’
- TV, Radio, Web
- August 23, 2016, 00:03
Hilary Fannin: We just don’t seem to be able to get enough of this ‘celebration of Irish women and their achievements’
'If I said I was within the safe drinking limit, I’d be lying'
- People
- August 19, 2016, 01:00
Hilary Fannin: Recently I read with a frisson of fear and recognition about the number of Irish women dying from alcohol-related i(...)
Hilary Fannin: Shame among the graves at Letterfrack
- People
- August 12, 2016, 01:00
In one row, four brothers are buried side by side, their deaths occurring at two-year intervals
Hilary Fannin: What I learned about love from Winston Churchill
- People
- August 5, 2016, 01:00
The Churchills' domestic arrangements sprang to mind when I was looking at a list of American bestsellers for 2016, which included(...)
Hilary Fannin: Coping mechanisms for this fiftysomething life
- People
- July 1, 2016, 06:00
Friends occasionally hit on small mantras, dropped clues in the forest of our shared decade, which they polish and hew to get them(...)
Hilary Fannin: wasps congregated and school smelled like a rotting banana
- People
- June 24, 2016, 06:00
We would disembark from the train at Killarney, my mother and I, around the same time every year, for our annual summer visit to K(...)
Hilary Fannin: You don’t need a pony to play cricket
- People
- June 17, 2016, 01:00
I had thought cricket grounds would feel exclusive, tight. I was wrong
Hilary Fannin: The cat’s mother
- Books
- June 12, 2016, 07:50
As her memoir, Hopscotch, comes out in paperback, the Irish Times columnist recalls having to overcome an aversion to the word ‘I’(...)
Hilary Fannin: An immaculately modern conception
- People
- June 10, 2016, 06:00
My neighbour, who had always wanted a child, was told that she had about six months to conceive
Hilary Fannin: This brave new world makes it damn hard to be slovenly
- People
- June 3, 2016, 01:00
I'm envious of our youth. Envious and scared
Hilary Fannin: My first gathering inspired by hormonal fluctuations
- People
- May 27, 2016, 01:00
I am suspicious of assumptions of like-mindedness, but I thought I’d give the menopause meeting a go
Hilary Fannin: No wedding is complete without a dog at the top table
- People
- May 20, 2016, 01:00
If you really want your wedding to be on-trend, you should factor in a canine ring-bearer or a doggy usher. Apparently
Hilary Fannin: The one census question that gave me pause
- People
- May 13, 2016, 09:00
Well of course I have ‘a long-lasting psychological or emotional condition’. Doesn’t everyone?
Hilary Fannin: The unbridgeable distance to the Kinnegad of my youth
- People
- May 6, 2016, 06:00
I loved Kinnegad, despite the disparaging rhyme my father taught me about it 100 years ago as we spluttered home along the road to(...)
Hilary Fannin: Steaming vaginas, how has it come to this?
- People
- April 29, 2016, 01:00
Why am I drawn to the sun-kissed, horrendously expensive and nauseatingly exclusive lifestyle advice on Gwyneth Paltrow's Goop?
Hilary Fannin: At ease with the singing witches of Baldoyle
- People
- April 22, 2016, 01:00
The atmosphere at Baldoyle Musical Society is simultaneously familiar and deeply unfamiliar; old-fashioned maybe, gently arcane
Hilary Fannin: Resurrection Sunday in a hospital waiting room
- People
- April 15, 2016, 01:00
Two beach-ready girls sat on the floor of the blue corridor; restless young men with chalk-white faces loomed around the plastic s(...)
Hilary Fannin: From Wags to witches in seven easy steps
- People
- April 8, 2016, 01:00
This handy guide will lead you to the premium seats and your very own shoebox full of studded Miu Mius ... and beyond
Hilary Fannin: My tough days are fleeting. Not everyone is so lucky
- People
- April 1, 2016, 06:00
How walking can help destigmatise an illness that used to be shoved to the back of the cupboard
Hilary Fannin: The knot in my breast and the dangerous business of living
- People
- March 25, 2016, 01:00
It wasn’t the first time I had had a call-back for further investigation after a mammogram
Hilary Fannin: The Spaniard who came to Ireland looking for rain
- People
- March 18, 2016, 01:00
The sweet Spanish woman I met on the flight home was looking forward to seeing the Giant Goose Way
Hilary Fannin: We don’t really do puberty any more, do we?
- People
- March 11, 2016, 01:00
We needed puberty in the 1970s. Good God, we needed any help we could get, crawling over the line to our sexual selves
Hilary Fannin: Life is far from hunky dory in our greying middle years
- People
- March 4, 2016, 01:00
We are about as cheery and Zen as a brace of lightly spiced battery-fed chickens in the run-up to barbecue season
Hilary Fannin: Dublin was the biggest closet in living history
- People
- February 26, 2016, 06:00
‘There were women, friends, who genuinely didn’t know each other were gay,’ says my friend Janice as she prepares to get married
Hilary Fannin: It was all allowed in the Dublin of my youth
- People
- February 19, 2016, 01:00
I recently had a reunion with a Dutch friend who had immigrated here when change was in the air
Hilary Fannin: My mother sees ‘the girls’ now only in her dreams
- People
- February 12, 2016, 01:00
The friendship of the four of them, their gang, their cabal, spanned the decades
Hilary Fannin: Phew, I can finally stop pretending I’m on the dry
- People
- February 5, 2016, 01:00
Great news: ‘Moderate consumption of Champagne has the potential to influence cognitive functioning, such as memory’
Hilary Fannin: Marry an octogenarian billionaire? Knickers to that
- People
- January 29, 2016, 01:00
I bet Jerry Hall never goes out with her underwear stuck to her raincoat
Hilary Fannin: The mortal dangers of excess weight, puritanism and life
- People
- January 22, 2016, 01:00
I’ve almost convinced myself that with a little effort, a little less vino, this year just might unravel more energetically and gr(...)
Hilary Fannin: No more fasting and failing, failing and fasting
- People
- January 15, 2016, 06:00
I can’t stand the Christmas-fatty-New-Year-skinny tripe that we swallow down like a laxative every year
Hilary Fannin: What’s one drunken cherry tree in a disappearing world?
- People
- January 8, 2016, 01:00
The rapacious old tart of a tree was the thing that drew me to this house, and now the chainsaws were out for her
Hilary Fannin: I’m unsure what to say to the universe this year
- People
- January 1, 2016, 06:00
Any pearl of wisdom compact enough to fit on a fridge magnet or the side of a coffee mug should be utterly rejected on the grounds(...)
Hilary Fannin: You can keep your perfect Christmas – I’m off for a bath
- People
- December 18, 2015, 01:00
Where’s the point in beating yourself to a stiff brandy-cream peak wondering why your Christmas is teetering on the brink of medio(...)
The vintage dress made a statement I didn’t like
- People
- December 11, 2015, 01:00
The dress I bought for an awards ceremony was tailored for a woman from many years ago, almost definitely before the advent of tak(...)
Hilary Fannin: Dire warnings and heavenly promises in Prague
- People
- December 4, 2015, 05:45
Three days of walking under a pale sun and red rooftops, necks craning, as instructed by the guidebook, to note the Baroque, the R(...)
Hilary Fannin: Is the menopause looming or has it been and gone?
- People
- November 27, 2015, 01:00
‘When you’re lying face down on the bathroom floor, trying to cool the raging thermostat inside you by clutching at the cold floor(...)
Hilary Fannin: Chin-Up Man proves even more taxing than a tax return
- People
- November 20, 2015, 01:00
What’s an unco-operative calculator compared with an unreconstructed he-man?
Hilary Fannin: Give me back my Aran jumper, Gwyneth
- People
- November 13, 2015, 06:00
Who knew my lumpy old sweater would end up on Goop?
Hilary Fannin: Lay people can be saints? Too bloody right
- People
- November 6, 2015, 01:00
Taking kids on pilgrimage to see One Direction takes its toll
Hilary Fannin: There must be more to the over-50s life than this?
- People
- October 30, 2015, 01:00
‘Ah, Dickie Rock. I think he’s past his sell-by date,’ one of the women at the swimming pool said