Sat 09 Sep 2005Stop minding our manners - pleaseWhy the sudden clamour for courtesy? Is it class war by another name, or is it just an excuse for an ill-mannered moan, asks Shane HegartyLast year, we were concerned with bad English. This year, we're bothered by bad manners. Books on etiquette and manners are gently pushing for attention and it threatens to trigger an unseemly public row between the very people who believe unseemly rows should be conducted in private. Possibly in the drawingroom. Over port.