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Tue 09 Sep 2005Respect the childThe Bigger Picture: There are no circumstances when hitting a child makes sense. When we move to control our children with fear, we have stopped parenting. Our attention is in entirely the wrong place - fixated on their behaviour as opposed to the real problem. They are facing a struggle, but we are pushed to the edge.