Just Darling

For Liz and Philip Darling, home is where the heart is, with tokens of their love and their family life decorating every room. By Alanna Gallagher

Meet the Darlings, whose home is decorated with mementoes of how the couple fell for each other, had children and got married.

Romance is everywhere in Liz and Philip’s Victorian detached house in Greystones, Co Wicklow. The couple met at Five Steps dancing, a type of movement meditation, and knew each other to see for five years before they first stepped out.

Together 10 years, they will celebrate their fourth wedding anniversary next month. They have four children: twins Tadhg and Luka (2), Oisín (5) and Lia (7).

In their simple, white Ikea kitchen stands a bronze statue of Pavarti, the Hindu goddess of love and devotion. The couple had been going out about eight months when Liz, a dance therapist, got the offer of a two-month job placement in Chennai, in India. “Why don’t you come with me?” she asked Philip. And he did.

The decorating piece de resistance is the mural in the dining room where Gustav Klimt’s The Kiss – a wedding gift from Liz’s brother, Patrick – looks down on family life. Together the couple pasted the paper into place, without a single row breaking out. Liz chose the piece (from muralsyourway.com) because of its tenderness, she says, and the rich colours used in the painter’s golden period.

These art nouveau and arts-and-crafts movement influences are mirrored in elsewhere in the house’s detailing, including the brass finger plates on the internal doors. The book shelves that frame the painting were built using money friends gave them as wedding gifts.

“Philip is very romantic,” says Liz. “He’s romantic in the everyday, not just on special occasions.” For her 40th birthday he made her a “card”: a Kilner jar containing 40 stones painted with the names of people and places that evoke happy memories for her. This has pride of place on the sitting room mantelpiece, which is home to several more love tokens.

These include a fertility symbol sporting a pair of cowrie shell earrings. Philip unwittingly gave it to Liz last Christmas, and she believes it is African in origin.Last Valentine’s Day she received a wooden box filled with straw. Concealed within were 10 little gifts, to mark their 10 years together. They included a piece of rose quartz and a framed print of Robert Frost’s poem Love Came Down At Christmas.