I’ve never had a huge interest in sex, but it’s as if, since having children, sexual interest has gone altogether
When I try to sort through his 80 years’ worth of belongings, I end up sitting in his study, feeling paralysed
I know men who have bravely left unhappy marriages, and are being prevented from having a second chance by their children. What is wrong with these bitter offspring?
How can I get him to wake up and smell the roses instead of dragging us all down?
It’s years since we broke up, but should I take the risk and contact him again?
It may be the season to be jolly, but all of the relationship pressures of the rest of the year apply doubly at Christmas. Luckily ‘The Irish Times’ agony aunt, Kate Holmquist is here to help some of them . . .
I have made an amazing connection with another woman 15 years my senior
I cannot overstate how unpleasant she is to him, but she thinks her behaviour is normal and he never complains
I have a family wedding coming up, and I am nervous that I might be found out
I’m on a cycle of pleasure, followed by doubt, then guilt, before it all starts again a few weeks later with a call from one of the women
My parents are rowing over my father’s affair, and my boyfriend is pressuring me to move in with him. What should I do?
I’m terrified that a stranger is wandering around Dublin with a nude photo of me
His financial irresponsibility has me at my wits’ end – I can’t help thinking about what will happen if we ever get a mortgage or have children
The dating scene for gay men is as fickle as it is for women seeking men
There are some masculine attributes most men have that I don’t have
The object of my affection is moving in with another woman: should I persevere or just walk away?
Where are the sane, lovely, mature men who want to sweep me off my feet?